The Dom

The Polarity I Express in Our Consensual "Parasocial" Dynamic

One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.

— Carl Jung

Some of the feedback I’ve received over the year since starting this newsletter has been complaints about my tone—how I come off. Before I fully address that, let me say this:

When I’m asked what valuable skill I learned most from my time in the…